Is your child not talking? What is typical at each age
By age 3, most children speak in sentences of three or more words, and a stranger understands most of what they say. If your child mostly uses single words, or a stranger can barely understand them, it is worth calling a speech therapist, even just to ask. The guides below cover every age from 12 months to 5 years.
This is not a diagnosis and does not replace an assessment. Children develop at different rates, and not matching this list does not mean something is wrong. If something worries you - whatever it says here - call.
Child's age
Choose your child's age. You will see what is typical at that age and what is worth raising with a speech therapist. It takes two minutes and needs no sign-up.
What is typical speech at 12 months?
Usual at this age
Responds to their name and understands "no"
Says one or two words, such as "mama" or "dada"
Points to show you something
Waves goodbye and copies simple gestures
Babbles with varied syllables - "ba-ba-da"
Worth asking about if
Does not respond when called by name
Does not point or use gestures
Makes no consonant sounds
Does not seek eye contact
What is typical speech at 18 months?
Usual at this age
Uses between 10 and 20 words
Points to body parts when asked
Follows a simple request without you gesturing
Tries to copy words they hear
Worth asking about if
Uses fewer than 5 words
Does not point to show you something interesting
Does not understand simple requests
Has stopped using words they previously said
What is typical speech at 2 years?
Usual at this age
Vocabulary is growing fast - dozens of words, and new ones every week
Puts two words together - "want water", "more bread"
Understood by someone outside the family about half the time
Follows a two-part instruction
Worth asking about if
Does not put two words together
Speech is unclear even to you
Only repeats what they hear without using it meaningfully
Shows little interest in interacting with other children
How much should a 3-year-old say?
Usual at this age
Speaks in sentences of three or more words
Understood by a stranger most of the time
Asks questions - "what", "where", "why"
Tells you what they did today
Worth asking about if
Speaks mainly in single words
A stranger can barely understand them
Gets stuck with visible tension, or avoids speaking
Does not ask questions
How much should a 4-year-old say?
Usual at this age
Tells a short story in the right order
Understood by a stranger almost always
Uses past and future tense
Holds a conversation over several turns
Worth asking about if
A stranger struggles to understand them
Still cannot manage s, z, sh and zh
Sentences stay short and ungrammatical
Cannot recount what happened
How much should a 5-year-old say?
Usual at this age
Produces almost all sounds correctly. Bulgarian r, and sometimes l, may still be settling - for most children that finishes by around 6
Tells a story with a beginning, middle and end
Understands multi-part instructions
Notices rhymes and matching first sounds
Worth asking about if
Swaps or drops sounds other than r and l
Struggles to build sentences
Cannot hear rhyme or first sounds - this links to reading later
Other children find them hard to understand
These lists follow the widely used developmental guides (ASHA and the CDC) together with Bulgarian norms for sound acquisition. The ages are approximate - children do not develop to a timetable.
Vocabulary is growing fast - dozens of words, and new ones every week
3 years
Speaks in sentences of three or more words
4 years
Tells a short story in the right order
5 years
Produces almost all sounds correctly. Bulgarian r, and sometimes l, may still be settling - for most children that finishes by around 6
When each sound arrives
The sound parents ask about most is Р. Here is when sounds typically settle in Bulgarian - and why English charts do not apply.
СЗШЖaround 4 yearsIn most children these are in place around the fourth year.
Лafter 5 yearsЛ settles later and can still be unsteady at five.
Рtowards 6 yearsР is the last to arrive. In most children it comes closer to six, which is why a five-year-old who still cannot say it is usually within the typical range.
When sounds settle in Bulgarian
Age
Sounds
around 4 years
С, З, Ш, Ж
after 5 years
Л
towards 6 years
Р
These ages are approximate and specific to Bulgarian. English norms place Р considerably earlier, and by that measure a perfectly typical Bulgarian child looks delayed.
What you can do from today
This is not therapy and does not replace an assessment.
Get down to their level
Kneel or sit on the floor so you are face to face. Your child can see how your lips move, and you can see what they are looking at.
Talk about what they are looking at
Not about what you want to talk about. Name whatever has caught their attention right now - that is how a word sticks to something real.
Wait
Count to five in your head before you step in. The pause is uncomfortable for an adult and exactly as long as a child needs to find the word.
Say it back correctly instead of correcting
If they say "woof-woof", answer "yes, a dog!". They hear the right word without being told they got it wrong.
Read together every day
It does not matter whether you reach the end. Turning the pages, pointing, and the fiftieth reading of the same favourite book all do the same work.
Turn down the background noise
A television or music playing behind you makes speech harder to pick out.
Questions and answers
Is this a diagnosis?
This is not a diagnosis and does not replace an assessment. Children develop at different rates, and not matching this list does not mean something is wrong. If something worries you - whatever it says here - call.
If two languages are spoken at home, does that delay speech?
Bilingualism does not delay speech and does not cause a speech disorder. Children growing up with two languages pass through the same stages as everyone else. Do not give up the language you speak most naturally with your child. What a child needs is a lot of language, not a particular language.
When do the sounds settle in Bulgarian?
In Bulgarian, С, З, Ш and Ж are in place in most children around the fourth year. Л settles later and may still be unsteady at five. Р is the last - in most children it comes towards the sixth year. The ages are approximate and apply to Bulgarian: English tables put Р considerably earlier.
How do I book an appointment?
Appointments are booked by phone: +359 88 959 3098. I see children Monday to Friday, 15:00 to 19:00, one person per hour so nobody waits. Appointments can be booked up to three weeks ahead, and changes or cancellations need at least 24 hours' notice.
Does anything in the second list sound familiar?
Call. If I think therapy is not needed, I will tell you.