Is your child not talking? What is typical at each age

By age 3, most children speak in sentences of three or more words, and a stranger understands most of what they say. If your child mostly uses single words, or a stranger can barely understand them, it is worth calling a speech therapist, even just to ask. The guides below cover every age from 12 months to 5 years.

This is not a diagnosis and does not replace an assessment. Children develop at different rates, and not matching this list does not mean something is wrong. If something worries you - whatever it says here - call.

Child's age

Choose your child's age. You will see what is typical at that age and what is worth raising with a speech therapist. It takes two minutes and needs no sign-up.

What is typical speech at 12 months?

Usual at this age

  • Responds to their name and understands "no"
  • Says one or two words, such as "mama" or "dada"
  • Points to show you something
  • Waves goodbye and copies simple gestures
  • Babbles with varied syllables - "ba-ba-da"

Worth asking about if

  • Does not respond when called by name
  • Does not point or use gestures
  • Makes no consonant sounds
  • Does not seek eye contact

What is typical speech at 18 months?

Usual at this age

  • Uses between 10 and 20 words
  • Points to body parts when asked
  • Follows a simple request without you gesturing
  • Tries to copy words they hear

Worth asking about if

  • Uses fewer than 5 words
  • Does not point to show you something interesting
  • Does not understand simple requests
  • Has stopped using words they previously said

What is typical speech at 2 years?

Usual at this age

  • Vocabulary is growing fast - dozens of words, and new ones every week
  • Puts two words together - "want water", "more bread"
  • Understood by someone outside the family about half the time
  • Follows a two-part instruction

Worth asking about if

  • Does not put two words together
  • Speech is unclear even to you
  • Only repeats what they hear without using it meaningfully
  • Shows little interest in interacting with other children

How much should a 3-year-old say?

Usual at this age

  • Speaks in sentences of three or more words
  • Understood by a stranger most of the time
  • Asks questions - "what", "where", "why"
  • Tells you what they did today

Worth asking about if

  • Speaks mainly in single words
  • A stranger can barely understand them
  • Gets stuck with visible tension, or avoids speaking
  • Does not ask questions

How much should a 4-year-old say?

Usual at this age

  • Tells a short story in the right order
  • Understood by a stranger almost always
  • Uses past and future tense
  • Holds a conversation over several turns

Worth asking about if

  • A stranger struggles to understand them
  • Still cannot manage s, z, sh and zh
  • Sentences stay short and ungrammatical
  • Cannot recount what happened

How much should a 5-year-old say?

Usual at this age

  • Produces almost all sounds correctly. Bulgarian r, and sometimes l, may still be settling - for most children that finishes by around 6
  • Tells a story with a beginning, middle and end
  • Understands multi-part instructions
  • Notices rhymes and matching first sounds

Worth asking about if

  • Swaps or drops sounds other than r and l
  • Struggles to build sentences
  • Cannot hear rhyme or first sounds - this links to reading later
  • Other children find them hard to understand

These lists follow the widely used developmental guides (ASHA and the CDC) together with Bulgarian norms for sound acquisition. The ages are approximate - children do not develop to a timetable.

Milestones by age — a brief overview
AgeUsual at this age
12 monthsResponds to their name and understands "no"
18 monthsUses between 10 and 20 words
2 yearsVocabulary is growing fast - dozens of words, and new ones every week
3 yearsSpeaks in sentences of three or more words
4 yearsTells a short story in the right order
5 yearsProduces almost all sounds correctly. Bulgarian r, and sometimes l, may still be settling - for most children that finishes by around 6

When each sound arrives

The sound parents ask about most is Р. Here is when sounds typically settle in Bulgarian - and why English charts do not apply.

  1. around 4 yearsIn most children these are in place around the fourth year.
  2. after 5 yearsЛ settles later and can still be unsteady at five.
  3. towards 6 yearsР is the last to arrive. In most children it comes closer to six, which is why a five-year-old who still cannot say it is usually within the typical range.
When sounds settle in Bulgarian
AgeSounds
around 4 yearsС, З, Ш, Ж
after 5 yearsЛ
towards 6 yearsР

These ages are approximate and specific to Bulgarian. English norms place Р considerably earlier, and by that measure a perfectly typical Bulgarian child looks delayed.

What you can do from today

This is not therapy and does not replace an assessment.

Questions and answers

Is this a diagnosis?

This is not a diagnosis and does not replace an assessment. Children develop at different rates, and not matching this list does not mean something is wrong. If something worries you - whatever it says here - call.

If two languages are spoken at home, does that delay speech?

Bilingualism does not delay speech and does not cause a speech disorder. Children growing up with two languages pass through the same stages as everyone else. Do not give up the language you speak most naturally with your child. What a child needs is a lot of language, not a particular language.

When do the sounds settle in Bulgarian?

In Bulgarian, С, З, Ш and Ж are in place in most children around the fourth year. Л settles later and may still be unsteady at five. Р is the last - in most children it comes towards the sixth year. The ages are approximate and apply to Bulgarian: English tables put Р considerably earlier.

How do I book an appointment?

Appointments are booked by phone: +359 88 959 3098. I see children Monday to Friday, 15:00 to 19:00, one person per hour so nobody waits. Appointments can be booked up to three weeks ahead, and changes or cancellations need at least 24 hours' notice.

Does anything in the second list sound familiar?

Call. If I think therapy is not needed, I will tell you.